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Moon River

Moon River


“Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors for you where there were only walls” urges Joseph Campbell.  Following our bliss has become something of a cliché, a well worn, gung ho, onwards and upwards kind of thing we toss out. For most of us it signifies nothing.

What is your Bliss?  What makes you truly Happy? How do you know what your bliss is, really?  And when you awaken, carpe diem, how do you consecrate your Holy Longing?

The Hero archetype is much misunderstood. Psychologists say it is the immature adolescent that blocks men and women from full maturity. In its purest form it is the impetus that squeezes us from the too-tight bud of our yearning and gives us the courage to dare to take the risk to open. Myths and fairy tales describe the Heroes’ journey – the journey from innocence to experience: our heroes and heroines follow trails of bread crumbs through dark forests. They slay fire-breathing dragons. They discover who they truly are when they leave the quacking ducks and find the slender-necked swans.  

When we set off on a journey, either literally, or metaphorically, we dismantle the brittle structures of a life outgrown. We discard the coarse dullness of our timid perceptions. We quicken with a molten life force. We set sail in the open seas, take the road less travelled.  Johann Von Goethe writes of this spark of courage that rekindles the heart, illuminates our lives, brings the Magic. “Distance does not make you falter. Now, arriving in magic, flying, and finally, insane for the light, you are the butterfly and you are gone. And so long as you haven’t experienced this: to die and so to grow, you are only a troubled guest on the dark earth.”

This is the adventure of being fully “alive”. The daemon–the driving spirit that invites us to experience passion, fantasy, emotions and our imagination–is as vast and as mysterious as the night sky. We may feel this aliveness when we are kissed awake by Love or when we break through our imprisoning walls of self doubt–the shoulds, the musts. When we finally turn towards initiative, creativity, and embrace Hope and Faith.

So my heart bloomed, when, I  read a blog entitled When a Frenchwoman meets an American man … excerpts from the adventures of Elise and Scott as they explore the world by sailboat. Elise and Scott’s response to this ancient impetus reflects the new zeitgeist of Pluto in Capricorn times, in that they have taken the heated rush of the Hero and transmuted it into the Warrior Archetype. They aren’t rushing off unprepared into the high seas. They are doing this with the slow hand energy of the Mature Masculine and Mature Feminine.

It is a timeless Love story that presents the luscious full-flavoured ingesting of Life.  Like all good stories, it describes a fated meeting, and begins, Once Upon A Time…. So I share with you the beginning of the story of Elise and Scott this new day.

 Elise: “Once upon a time, a French Woman who had been living and working in Paris for many years and who was fed up with the daily grind and both the gloominess and selfishness of Parisians decided in October 2010 to go to a place she has always dreamt to go to… TAHITI, in FRENCH POLYNESIA…”

Scott: “I went to Polynesia alone to rediscover myself and as a sort of ceremonial re-launch of my new life.  Elise and I ran into each other on Huahine a few days before the end of my Polynesian adventure.  Since then, we’ve spent about 3,000 hours together…  The only way I can describe it to you is the word “harmony.”   We found that we both shared the same ever-deferred-dream: to explore the world by sailboat.”

My soul stirs as I celebrate this impetus to embrace happiness, to answer the call to adventure. This daring to write the poetry of Big Love, to rearrange their lives so that their hearts sing and their souls may soar. I honour their courage to set sail at the anointed hour. To de-stigmatise the norms, conventions, rules that tether them to the lives that have grown too small for their soul song.

“Doesn’t everything die too fast and too soon? Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?” asks Mary Oliver.

Scott responds: “We spent our first evening together in Huahine on the beach staring at a full moon and a million stars, above and on the water.  It was a magical, mystical conversation about life and self and others… And, we both felt inspired- – by each other, life, whatever.  So, the moon has become a bit of a symbol for us.  Anyway, we chose the name Mystic Muse for our boat in remembrance of the moon’s inspirational power.”

I dedicate this to you, Elise and Scott, and to your dreamboat, Mystic Muse, as you discover new depths of Love, and a new perspective on Life.

Carpe Diem!

Scott and Elsie, this is for you:

Moon River, wider than a mile,
I’m crossing you in style some day.
Oh, dream maker, you heart breaker;
wherever you’re going I’m going your way.
Two drifters off to see the world.
There’s such a lot of world to see.
We’re after the same rainbow’s end–
waiting ’round the bend,
my huckleberry friend,
Moon River and me.




Ingrid Hoffman

  • michel

    November 21, 2011at8:23 am Reply

    wonderful words and thoughts dear ingrid….hmmmmmmm…..to follow your bliss……thought provoking for a rainy monday….thanks for this….hope you follow your bliss today 🙂

  • Craig

    November 21, 2011at12:10 pm Reply

    Following my bliss keeps coming up for me. Has done many times this past year. My sun returns to it’s birth place tomorrow. How significant! 🙂

    Thanks for the writings Ingrid.

    • Ingrid

      November 21, 2011at4:39 pm Reply

      I love what Joanna Watters says, Craig… and have to wonder, what is your bliss and why do you not follow the call of your beautiful heart? Many Happy Returns Scorpio man!

  • Joanna Watters

    November 21, 2011at1:59 pm Reply

    What a truly inspirational story. I think the key word you seize on Ingrid is “courage”. How many people have wanted to take off to the place of their dreams and, even when the chance is there, have not taken it? Or many of us live in a “box” of our own making? I believe that bliss is about connection – firstly in terms of our place in the universe, and then, and only then, with other beings. Finding bliss is at first a solitary pursuit as Scott and Elise’s story illustrates, and how wonderful that they then found each other. Thanks Ingrid, lovely!

    • Ingrid

      November 21, 2011at4:41 pm Reply

      Oh Joanna, as always you are succinct and so real! Courage of course comes from the French word for heart… as Scott and Elise’s love story tells us. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I love what you say about bliss being about connection.

  • Maeve Murran

    November 23, 2011at10:38 pm Reply

    I think Bliss for me is sometimes like trying to catch a translucent bubble floating in space Ingrid – you think you have managed to catch it only to have it disappear again from your grasp in an instant! Lately my bliss has been present when I truly come to peace and gratitude within myself for what I have created in my life. In loving myself and the choices I have made – maybe therein lies the bliss??? I am still a work in progress!!!! Lots of Love MaeveXXXXX

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